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		<link>http://cathlawson.com/2008/08/28/business-referrals-are-you-making-this-huge-mistake/comment-page-1/#comment-16240</link>
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		<title>By: John Hoff - eVentureBiz</title>
		<link>http://cathlawson.com/2008/08/28/business-referrals-are-you-making-this-huge-mistake/comment-page-1/#comment-12986</link>
		<dc:creator>John Hoff - eVentureBiz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Aug 2008 14:35:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very important topic, Cath. I like your analogy about sinking your marketing $$

I often ask clients how they&#039;ve heard of us through email, however, after reading some of the great comments in here, I think I&#039;ll add a &quot;how did you hear about us&quot; field to my contact forms.

&lt;em&gt;John Hoff - eVentureBiz&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/eVentureBizBlog/~3/377744523/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Securing Your WordPress Blog: Post 4 - Setting Up .htaccess&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very important topic, Cath. I like your analogy about sinking your marketing $$</p>
<p>I often ask clients how they&#8217;ve heard of us through email, however, after reading some of the great comments in here, I think I&#8217;ll add a &#8220;how did you hear about us&#8221; field to my contact forms.</p>
<p><em>John Hoff &#8211; eVentureBiz&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/eVentureBizBlog/~3/377744523/' >Securing Your WordPress Blog: Post 4 &#8211; Setting Up .htaccess</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: cathlawson</title>
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		<dc:creator>cathlawson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 22:42:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Barbara - that is great.  And if you hadn&#039;t asked those people, you could have wasted a lot of money on advertising you didn&#039;t need.

Name recognition is important isn&#039;t it?  I think vehicles with logos on are brilliant for that too.  I often went for my shopping in one of the vans so everyone going in and out of the supermarket would see the logo.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Barbara &#8211; that is great.  And if you hadn&#8217;t asked those people, you could have wasted a lot of money on advertising you didn&#8217;t need.</p>
<p>Name recognition is important isn&#8217;t it?  I think vehicles with logos on are brilliant for that too.  I often went for my shopping in one of the vans so everyone going in and out of the supermarket would see the logo.</p>
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		<title>By: Barbara Swafford</title>
		<link>http://cathlawson.com/2008/08/28/business-referrals-are-you-making-this-huge-mistake/comment-page-1/#comment-12966</link>
		<dc:creator>Barbara Swafford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 22:36:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Catherine,

That&#039;s one thing I learned to do a long time ago.  When we would advertise, I wanted to know if our advertising dollars were paying off.  As it turned out, most of our referrals come from satisfied customers.  For that reason, I was able to decrease the amount of money we spend on advertising.  Now we&#039;re using advertising more for name recognition than anything else.

&lt;em&gt;Barbara Swafford&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/bloggingwithoutablog/DWWZ/~3/376861177/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Self Promotion  -  From The Archives&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Catherine,</p>
<p>That&#8217;s one thing I learned to do a long time ago.  When we would advertise, I wanted to know if our advertising dollars were paying off.  As it turned out, most of our referrals come from satisfied customers.  For that reason, I was able to decrease the amount of money we spend on advertising.  Now we&#8217;re using advertising more for name recognition than anything else.</p>
<p><em>Barbara Swafford&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/bloggingwithoutablog/DWWZ/~3/376861177/' >Self Promotion  &#8211;  From The Archives</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: cathlawson</title>
		<link>http://cathlawson.com/2008/08/28/business-referrals-are-you-making-this-huge-mistake/comment-page-1/#comment-12965</link>
		<dc:creator>cathlawson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 22:08:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Mrs M - You didn&#039;t mention that you&#039;d started a blog consulting business.  When did that happen?  I did notice you&#039;d been posting less on your blog but I didn&#039;t know why.  You&#039;ll have to let me know more about it.

It&#039;s great that your clients are telling you who referred them though.  It will make life much easier for you.  Congratulations.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Mrs M &#8211; You didn&#8217;t mention that you&#8217;d started a blog consulting business.  When did that happen?  I did notice you&#8217;d been posting less on your blog but I didn&#8217;t know why.  You&#8217;ll have to let me know more about it.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s great that your clients are telling you who referred them though.  It will make life much easier for you.  Congratulations.</p>
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		<title>By: Mrs. Micah</title>
		<link>http://cathlawson.com/2008/08/28/business-referrals-are-you-making-this-huge-mistake/comment-page-1/#comment-12964</link>
		<dc:creator>Mrs. Micah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 22:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So far, almost everyone who has come to my blog-consulting business has told me who referred them. Some read my other blog, of course, and I recognized a few blog-friends or regular commenters.

But I hadn&#039;t been asking on a regular basis if it wasn&#039;t volunteered. There was only one person who didn&#039;t tell me by way of preliminary and talks with a graphic designer led me to believe he found out about my through a recommendation on the designer&#039;s site. Though it&#039;s possible that it was the other way around, since we both have PF blogs, the client does PF, and we each have recommended the other. That&#039;s why I&#039;d assumed it was through my blog.

Anyway, thanks for the tip. I also try to thank people for recommendations. :)

&lt;em&gt;Mrs. Micah&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://hire.mrsmicah.com/articles/how-to-build-a-wordpress-theme-preview-site/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How to Build a Wordpress Theme Preview Site&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So far, almost everyone who has come to my blog-consulting business has told me who referred them. Some read my other blog, of course, and I recognized a few blog-friends or regular commenters.</p>
<p>But I hadn&#8217;t been asking on a regular basis if it wasn&#8217;t volunteered. There was only one person who didn&#8217;t tell me by way of preliminary and talks with a graphic designer led me to believe he found out about my through a recommendation on the designer&#8217;s site. Though it&#8217;s possible that it was the other way around, since we both have PF blogs, the client does PF, and we each have recommended the other. That&#8217;s why I&#8217;d assumed it was through my blog.</p>
<p>Anyway, thanks for the tip. I also try to thank people for recommendations. <img src='http://cathlawson.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><em>Mrs. Micah&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://hire.mrsmicah.com/articles/how-to-build-a-wordpress-theme-preview-site/' >How to Build a Wordpress Theme Preview Site</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: cathlawson</title>
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		<dc:creator>cathlawson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 21:38:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Davina - it sounds as though you have it working well for you.

The section on client materials asking people to note where they heard of you is a great idea.

I totally agree with keeping the relationship wheel moving.  It&#039;s so important in business.  I&#039;ve been in the situation a few times, where I&#039;ll think I&#039;m building a relationship with another business. 

Then I wind up referring a few people, don&#039;t get any thanks and never hear from them again.  And often, those are businesses that could have returned the favour of referring people back to me.

And I guess it does stop you from referring people - you do begin to feel used.  And it does make you wonder exactly where their business will go.

It sounds like you&#039;ve really got yourself organised and know how to treat referrers and also not throw marketing money down the drain.  Good for you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Davina &#8211; it sounds as though you have it working well for you.</p>
<p>The section on client materials asking people to note where they heard of you is a great idea.</p>
<p>I totally agree with keeping the relationship wheel moving.  It&#8217;s so important in business.  I&#8217;ve been in the situation a few times, where I&#8217;ll think I&#8217;m building a relationship with another business. </p>
<p>Then I wind up referring a few people, don&#8217;t get any thanks and never hear from them again.  And often, those are businesses that could have returned the favour of referring people back to me.</p>
<p>And I guess it does stop you from referring people &#8211; you do begin to feel used.  And it does make you wonder exactly where their business will go.</p>
<p>It sounds like you&#8217;ve really got yourself organised and know how to treat referrers and also not throw marketing money down the drain.  Good for you.</p>
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		<title>By: Davina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Davina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 21:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Cath. I have noticed that I haven&#039;t had to ask too many times how people have heard of me. The conversation usually opens up with them saying &quot;So-and-so referred me to you...&quot; Then I always follow up with that person to thank them for the referral.

I include a section on client materials that I develop where I ask people to note how they heard of me.

I had recently met a friend of a friend who is a freelance writer. She started sending me quite a few referrals and I made sure that I showed her my appreciation. It is important to keep that referral wheel moving, I agree.

&lt;em&gt;Davina&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://lovingpulse.wordpress.com/2008/08/25/does-misery-really-love-company/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Does Misery Really Love Company?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Cath. I have noticed that I haven&#8217;t had to ask too many times how people have heard of me. The conversation usually opens up with them saying &#8220;So-and-so referred me to you&#8230;&#8221; Then I always follow up with that person to thank them for the referral.</p>
<p>I include a section on client materials that I develop where I ask people to note how they heard of me.</p>
<p>I had recently met a friend of a friend who is a freelance writer. She started sending me quite a few referrals and I made sure that I showed her my appreciation. It is important to keep that referral wheel moving, I agree.</p>
<p><em>Davina&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://lovingpulse.wordpress.com/2008/08/25/does-misery-really-love-company/' >Does Misery Really Love Company?</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: cathlawson</title>
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		<dc:creator>cathlawson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 21:15:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Akemi - I hear where you&#039;re coming from.  I&#039;ve been there myself.  Sometimes you&#039;ll do a whole heap of research before you decide to buy a product.  And when the seller asked how you heard about them, you don&#039;t remember, because you&#039;ve researched so many sources.

Not so sure about the confidentiality thing though - I&#039;ve never heard anybody describe that as a problem that would prevent them from saying thank you to a referrer. 

 I think that if the customer and the person they&#039;d referred had been discussing your service to begin with, it&#039;s probably a given that they&#039;re not treating it as confidential.

I&#039;ve had a few people not thank me for referrals.  And it&#039;s not like it bothers me a lot,  them not saying thank you.  But in some cases I&#039;ve referred dozens of clients to folk who didn&#039;t.  And I&#039;ve thought - well why bother?  Maybe they can&#039;t handle the extra business.

Maybe it would be an idea if you asked your clients if they minded you thanking the referrer, then you have no worries.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Akemi &#8211; I hear where you&#8217;re coming from.  I&#8217;ve been there myself.  Sometimes you&#8217;ll do a whole heap of research before you decide to buy a product.  And when the seller asked how you heard about them, you don&#8217;t remember, because you&#8217;ve researched so many sources.</p>
<p>Not so sure about the confidentiality thing though &#8211; I&#8217;ve never heard anybody describe that as a problem that would prevent them from saying thank you to a referrer. </p>
<p> I think that if the customer and the person they&#8217;d referred had been discussing your service to begin with, it&#8217;s probably a given that they&#8217;re not treating it as confidential.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve had a few people not thank me for referrals.  And it&#8217;s not like it bothers me a lot,  them not saying thank you.  But in some cases I&#8217;ve referred dozens of clients to folk who didn&#8217;t.  And I&#8217;ve thought &#8211; well why bother?  Maybe they can&#8217;t handle the extra business.</p>
<p>Maybe it would be an idea if you asked your clients if they minded you thanking the referrer, then you have no worries.</p>
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