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	<title>Comments on: Do You Give A Toss If You Offend People?</title>
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	<description>Bold Advice For Success In Business &#38; Life</description>
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		<title>By: woo themes review</title>
		<link>http://cathlawson.com/2009/03/24/do-you-give-a-toss-if-you-offend-people/comment-page-1/#comment-23334</link>
		<dc:creator>woo themes review</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 00:34:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>great post. I also recommend conducting polls-helps alot when it comes down to finding out what your list wants, needs and desires.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>great post. I also recommend conducting polls-helps alot when it comes down to finding out what your list wants, needs and desires.</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Steve Bedwell</title>
		<link>http://cathlawson.com/2009/03/24/do-you-give-a-toss-if-you-offend-people/comment-page-1/#comment-22074</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Steve Bedwell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 15:18:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Cath,

Your comment &quot;You’re Nobody Until You Get Hate Messages&quot; reminds me of advice I was given when I first tried to market my motivational speaking services: &quot;If you don&#039;t offend anybody you&#039;re not marketing hard enough.&quot;

One important distinction for me is whether someone is offended because I&#039;ve challenged one of their core beliefs or because I&#039;ve been a jerk. 

Steve

&lt;em&gt;Dr. Steve Bedwell&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://www.stevebedwell.com/blog/emotional-intelligence/emotional-intelligence-a-crucial-element/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Emotional Intelligence - A Critical Element&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Cath,</p>
<p>Your comment &#8220;You’re Nobody Until You Get Hate Messages&#8221; reminds me of advice I was given when I first tried to market my motivational speaking services: &#8220;If you don&#8217;t offend anybody you&#8217;re not marketing hard enough.&#8221;</p>
<p>One important distinction for me is whether someone is offended because I&#8217;ve challenged one of their core beliefs or because I&#8217;ve been a jerk. </p>
<p>Steve</p>
<p><em>Dr. Steve Bedwell&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://www.stevebedwell.com/blog/emotional-intelligence/emotional-intelligence-a-crucial-element/' >Emotional Intelligence &#8211; A Critical Element</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Kuy</title>
		<link>http://cathlawson.com/2009/03/24/do-you-give-a-toss-if-you-offend-people/comment-page-1/#comment-21953</link>
		<dc:creator>Kuy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 11:14:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t think you should spend your time worrying if people are offended by some off hand remark. I find people today have such thin skins, if I were to worry about it I&#039;d be a wreck.

- Kuy</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t think you should spend your time worrying if people are offended by some off hand remark. I find people today have such thin skins, if I were to worry about it I&#8217;d be a wreck.</p>
<p>- Kuy</p>
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		<title>By: A Love/Hate relationship with Social Media Marketing</title>
		<link>http://cathlawson.com/2009/03/24/do-you-give-a-toss-if-you-offend-people/comment-page-1/#comment-21868</link>
		<dc:creator>A Love/Hate relationship with Social Media Marketing</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 14:47:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Lawson says, You&#8217;re Nobody until You Get Hate Messages. If you&#8217;re tempted to send such a message, take a lesson from my Pest Control company, Truly [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Lawson says, You&#8217;re Nobody until You Get Hate Messages. If you&#8217;re tempted to send such a message, take a lesson from my Pest Control company, Truly [...]</p>
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		<title>By: cathlawson</title>
		<link>http://cathlawson.com/2009/03/24/do-you-give-a-toss-if-you-offend-people/comment-page-1/#comment-21861</link>
		<dc:creator>cathlawson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 09:33:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Davina - That&#039;s a good point.  And I guess the Drama Queens who thought I&#039;d written about them finally got their wish too.

Hi Wilhb - That&#039;s a really good point.  If you live in a country that doesn&#039;t have freedom of speech - it&#039;s not just hate mail that you may attract.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Davina &#8211; That&#8217;s a good point.  And I guess the Drama Queens who thought I&#8217;d written about them finally got their wish too.</p>
<p>Hi Wilhb &#8211; That&#8217;s a really good point.  If you live in a country that doesn&#8217;t have freedom of speech &#8211; it&#8217;s not just hate mail that you may attract.</p>
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		<title>By: wilhb81</title>
		<link>http://cathlawson.com/2009/03/24/do-you-give-a-toss-if-you-offend-people/comment-page-1/#comment-21860</link>
		<dc:creator>wilhb81</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 05:33:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is the hardest parts of becoming a blogger/online journalist, Cath. If you write about some boring and dull stuffs, no one will care about it. However, when you&#039;re writing about country issues or controversial news, then you&#039;ll have the great chance of being arrested under Internal Security Act (ISA)!

&lt;em&gt;wilhb81&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/blogspot/wilhb81ez/~3/KfZxPxGPJ_g/cash-advance-loans-will-help-you-out.html&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Cash Advance Loans Will Help You Out From Financial Trouble!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is the hardest parts of becoming a blogger/online journalist, Cath. If you write about some boring and dull stuffs, no one will care about it. However, when you&#8217;re writing about country issues or controversial news, then you&#8217;ll have the great chance of being arrested under Internal Security Act (ISA)!</p>
<p><em>wilhb81&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/blogspot/wilhb81ez/~3/KfZxPxGPJ_g/cash-advance-loans-will-help-you-out.html' >Cash Advance Loans Will Help You Out From Financial Trouble!</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Davina</title>
		<link>http://cathlawson.com/2009/03/24/do-you-give-a-toss-if-you-offend-people/comment-page-1/#comment-21858</link>
		<dc:creator>Davina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 05:14:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Cath. I haven&#039;t received any horrid email or comments thankfully. I&#039;m glad to not have to waste the energy dealing with them, but I&#039;m sure one day they&#039;re bound to pop up... you can&#039;t please everybody. I guess you can thank the Drama Queens in one respect... they have given you something to write about.

&lt;em&gt;Davina&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://www.shadesofcrimson.com/2009/03/23/a-vision-of-fulfillment/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;A Vision of Fulfillment&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Cath. I haven&#8217;t received any horrid email or comments thankfully. I&#8217;m glad to not have to waste the energy dealing with them, but I&#8217;m sure one day they&#8217;re bound to pop up&#8230; you can&#8217;t please everybody. I guess you can thank the Drama Queens in one respect&#8230; they have given you something to write about.</p>
<p><em>Davina&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://www.shadesofcrimson.com/2009/03/23/a-vision-of-fulfillment/' >A Vision of Fulfillment</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: cathlawson</title>
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		<dc:creator>cathlawson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 14:24:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi John - I did not realise our kids had the same names.  You&#039;re lucky - yours are still small.  I wish it was possible to turn teenagers back into toddlers.

Hi Jannie - What is a Canuck?  With sandals is even worse.  I would rather wear nothing on my feet.

Hi Robin - I am surprised the topic you write on hasn&#039;t provoked mean messages. 

But I know you were a bit unsure about writing too much about physical bodies living forever and this may come across in your posts.  Once you become more confident about what you&#039;re writing you&#039;ll probably get more hassle from readers.

Like you I used to worry about some of the things I wrote.  Then I realized that most people don&#039;t care whether you consistently write things they like.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi John &#8211; I did not realise our kids had the same names.  You&#8217;re lucky &#8211; yours are still small.  I wish it was possible to turn teenagers back into toddlers.</p>
<p>Hi Jannie &#8211; What is a Canuck?  With sandals is even worse.  I would rather wear nothing on my feet.</p>
<p>Hi Robin &#8211; I am surprised the topic you write on hasn&#8217;t provoked mean messages. </p>
<p>But I know you were a bit unsure about writing too much about physical bodies living forever and this may come across in your posts.  Once you become more confident about what you&#8217;re writing you&#8217;ll probably get more hassle from readers.</p>
<p>Like you I used to worry about some of the things I wrote.  Then I realized that most people don&#8217;t care whether you consistently write things they like.</p>
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		<title>By: Robin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 12:16:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Cath - this has all been a fascinating read. I must be very boring, because i have not been abused. Well once, and I left it on my blog so i could address what he was saying.

I do stress out at times about my posts. I was worrying about a recent one, because I knew some people would not like it, and Frank said i just had to write what I thought. I went ahead and the world didn&#039;t cave in - but it was very difficult.

&lt;em&gt;Robin&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://letsliveforever.net/2009/03/what-if-the-movie-a-review/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;What If? The Movie, A Review&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Cath &#8211; this has all been a fascinating read. I must be very boring, because i have not been abused. Well once, and I left it on my blog so i could address what he was saying.</p>
<p>I do stress out at times about my posts. I was worrying about a recent one, because I knew some people would not like it, and Frank said i just had to write what I thought. I went ahead and the world didn&#8217;t cave in &#8211; but it was very difficult.</p>
<p><em>Robin&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://letsliveforever.net/2009/03/what-if-the-movie-a-review/' >What If? The Movie, A Review</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Jannie Funster</title>
		<link>http://cathlawson.com/2009/03/24/do-you-give-a-toss-if-you-offend-people/comment-page-1/#comment-21846</link>
		<dc:creator>Jannie Funster</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 01:44:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The  post I received the most comments on so far (73,) also garnered me my first (and only) insult.

Negativity really makes some peoples&#039; days.  But  not mine.

btw, it&#039;s actually we Canucks who started that sport sock trend - only they have to be worn with sandals.

Born and raised Canuck that is, before my wandering ways got the best of me.

&lt;em&gt;Jannie Funster&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://www.janniefunster.com/?p=4988&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Technical woes&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The  post I received the most comments on so far (73,) also garnered me my first (and only) insult.</p>
<p>Negativity really makes some peoples&#8217; days.  But  not mine.</p>
<p>btw, it&#8217;s actually we Canucks who started that sport sock trend &#8211; only they have to be worn with sandals.</p>
<p>Born and raised Canuck that is, before my wandering ways got the best of me.</p>
<p><em>Jannie Funster&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://www.janniefunster.com/?p=4988' >Technical woes</a></em></p>
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